Two Guys Blogging and The Mad Dater started it. Let's all become a little more educated on what you should do as a member of the opposite sex.
...when you come home, kiss your woman and tell her how happy she makes you.
...give her an orgasm...again and again and again.
...surprise her with flowers, a romantic night out or full body massage.
...when you tell her you're going to call...actually call.
...when you check out a hot girl, make your comments, but end by telling your woman she's way hotter.
...find out one of her fantasies and help her act it out.
...on a weekend, slowly and gently wake her up by touching her in all the right places.
...bring back chivalry and open the car door for her.
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Great list, altough,
"...on a weekend, slowly and gently wake her up by touching her in all the right places."
What guy doesn't try doing that? Or do you mean "once in a while" meaning, please don't do it as much?
Well I've only had one guy do that to me...and it was the hottest thing ever. Maybe I look so peaceful sleeping that they don't wanna wake me up?? Nah...sex always comes before sleep, right?
The moral of the story: Do it and do it often!
See, weirdly, I already do all that. But I never thought it was something that would stop.
I used to get a quaint smile when I told my women how happy they made me. Cause I said it SO often, they got tired of it.
Some girls can't do the O thing multiple times, no matter how much effort goes into it. And yet, is there any appreciation for the hard work that goes into trying? Hell no. Most women just think that being there and letting you do it is gift enough.
I've done the flowers and romantic night and full body massage. And what came of it? A thank you and then sleep.
I'm kinda bitter about this whole thing, and I'm writing a post about it too. Cause I've done all this... well... the calling thing I'm guilty of, but other than that, I'm solid.]
What if your woman claims not to have ANY fantasies? Does that mean she does, but they don't involve YOU?
Weekend touching is a good way to get yelled at, in my experience.
I'm always chivalrous.
Paul
From reading our comments here and on 2 guys blogging... I'd have to say that you got it right. It's about appreciation. And I guess also people expressing what they wnat and need - which I know I've been guilty of not doing until it's too late. Thanks for participating in this conversation Biatch. And the last time i was suprised with flowers whas when the dud I was dating Fucked up - lol
The Mad Dater,
"Because there's a Bastard in all of us"
BTW - that pic is the cutest
Apparently, I'm dating all the wrong men. In my experience, my guy would start off by doing all the things I love. But then as we got closer and more comfortable, the sweet gestures started to taper off. No more opening the door for me, no more flowers "just because," no more hot morning sex...so much so that I would find myself wishing he would do them "just once in awhile." I guess I just assumed that most other men were similar...glad to be proven wrong!
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