Last night I was having a conversation with my best friend about three guys (we'll call them S, P, and K) I have been seeing, hanging out with...call it what you want. They are all nice guys and have some really good qualities but there is something substantially wrong with each one that would ultimately prevent any sort of committed relationship.
S is a real sweetheart, down to earth, and has a great sense of humor. However, he seems to be a bit of a player. I've come to realize that I'm not the only girl he's wooed with his adorable smile and southern drawl. He has a remarkable way of making me feel like the only girl in his world...when that's really not the case. The best part is that he thinks he's being incognito in juggling the girls. Unbeknownst to him, I have an uncanny sixth sense and intuition that scares me sometimes. I see right through his games. Granted, we have been casually dating and he has a right to date other people, but being deceptive about it is just plain disrespectful. And this night didn't help either.
P is adorable. He reminds me of this one. He knows the right compliments to deliver that will make me blush. He's not afraid to show affection by a touch of his hand or a kiss on my forehead. He's got such a sweet nature and I can't help wanting to be in his company. Unfortunately, P just got out of a long relationship and is reluctant to commit to anyone just yet. He's still in the "have my cake and eat it too" phase. His phone rings constantly with a different girl on the other end. Unlike S, he doesn't hide the fact he has a small harem of girls and will answer a call from any given one while on a date with me. It's not the girl calling that bothers me, but when I'm on a date, I think it's disrespectful to answer calls period (unless it's something of importance or unavoidable). Another thing that is off is the unconventional relationship he has with his roommate. Behind her back (yes, her), he will make fun of her and the things she says, while being more teasing and cutesy when she's around. And when you have a girl over, why would you need to go into your roommate's room, shut the door, and "say goodnight" for twenty minutes? I find that a bit strange.
And last but not least, there's K. He's been in, he's been out, he's left and came back. He's like an addiction that I can't kick. He's got such a mysterious aura and I'm always trying to figure him out which makes him even more appealing to me. He's far from what I would consider "boyfriend material" but I can't help wanting to discover everything about him. Like P, he's definitely reluctant to commit to anyone. He surrounds himself with girls, none of which seem to be anything more than friends. He seldom lets his feelings be known to others, especially to me. One day he's hot, the next he's cold; he is so damn hard to read that it frustrates the hell out of me.
If only I could take the qualities I find appealing and throw them together. For example, S's charming smile, piercing blue eyes, sense of humor and craziness; P's hair, sex drive, body type, honesty, and affection; K's nice penis, facial structure, height, adventurousness, and intelligence. Unfortunately, J informed that men are NOT Lego®s and therefore I cannot piece them together to create my idea of a near perfect man.
Did you hear that? That was the sound of my little bubble of hope bursting.
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